Monday, December 10, 2018

Call for Action: HBO

Dear executive officers,  Jeff Bewkes and Richard Plepler,

As a student of Human Development, I am committed to creating a world with positive outcomes for individuals and families. As a citizen, I choose to be engaged by taking action in pursuing changes in the multiple realms of influence. One such realm that affects a large amount of American people is the television industry. I would like to assist you in reevaluating your content by informing you how your current content negatively impacts our world and stifles the potential for beauty and creativity in our world.  
As a premium cable television network, you hold a substantial amount of power in dictating the quality and quantity of content that is provided to the general American audience.  Congratulations on being the oldest and longest paid TV service that has ran continuously since 1972. With such a feat, you have an immense opportunity to promote powerful messages that either negatively or positively influence the overall well-being of your viewers. Some of your shows like, Game of Thrones or The Deuce, although popular, reinforce harmful messages that normalize rape myths and sexual violence. Such sexual exploitation can create mental scripts that can influence an individual’s behaviors when placed in triggering, real-life situations.
Pornography, sexual slavery, and prostitution as shown by such TV shows,  are real-life harms that cause deep wounds that have long lasting effects. Showing graphic portrayals of sexual exploitation makes such acts seem less serious with less negative consequences. Additionally, the average consumer may unintentionally treat such real life matters as a form of entertainment--something from which they receive pleasure rather than disgust. In turn, false beliefs about victims of sexual violence are internalized by the general public, potentially minimizing the need for legal action to protect victims and seek out perpetrators.
Whether or not one is passively permitting or actively creating the objectification of another human being, all are responsible for the consequences of such choices. Often those consequences harm seemingly powerless, vulnerable populations, but the effect of such exploitation is in reality, far more expansive. By allowing for gratuitous, drawn out sexual scenes to be shown on your network, you are placing not only the fictional characters, that happen to be real humans with actual souls, in sexually objectifying contexts, but you are positioning your viewer as a voyeur of sexual assault.
Please stop producing that shows that normalize commercial sexual exploitation, eroticisizing sexual nudity and paid for nudity. Our world needs those in power, such as yourselves, to make informed decisions about the consequences of your choices. You can choose to be known as leaders of the media industry that create positive, healthy behaviors that allow for positive human development,  or you can choose to be known as promoters of the dehumanization that accompanies sexual violence for the sake of more green paper.
Thanks,

Karina Okoren

Saturday, December 8, 2018

BYU Mens Choir

Well this week was so strange. Everything felt quite subdued and subtly sober. I walked into the tanner building around 4pm on Thursday and had headphones in. I was on my way to meet my friend to study but some external force influenced me to remove my headphones and be present. In the process, I was hit with a wall of power. The byu mens choir filled the staircase of the tanner buliding and were singing christmas hymns. I stopped in awe. It was like I couldnt move any further. The power of the music was so powerful. Wow. I felt grateful to be a part of our community and to be experiencing mortality and that I get to wake up each day, not knowing what new walls of power will hit me next, passing from one lane of media into the next.

Sunday, December 2, 2018

Work Posting

This Saturday I worked a full day at my job and it felt like an abnormally looooong day. I work at an assisted living center as an activities assistant and oof it was just one of those days where no one was pleased and the schedule kept getting out of hand. I was the only one working this day and I felt so so tired and I couldn't handle hear any more residents critique what I was doing and my patience was growing thin. We had a christmas party and my boss asked me to where an elf costume which just felt like the cherry on top. I was the only one dressed as an elf and the only one really there to clean up and set up all the rest of the activities. Lets just say I didn't feel like the happy, christmas elf you would want at a christmas party. Anyways I ended up posting a picture of myself in the elf costume on social media and I realized in that moment how social media became a coping mechanism for me. When I was alone working, feeling like the only sane person, absolutely exhausted, I felt validated, understood and comforted by posting and feeling like other people also have long hard days at work and it is okay to laugh about it at the end of the day.

Call for Action: HBO

Dear executive officers,  Jeff Bewkes and Richard Plepler, As a student of Human Development, I am committed to creating a world with p...