Monday, December 10, 2018

Call for Action: HBO

Dear executive officers,  Jeff Bewkes and Richard Plepler,

As a student of Human Development, I am committed to creating a world with positive outcomes for individuals and families. As a citizen, I choose to be engaged by taking action in pursuing changes in the multiple realms of influence. One such realm that affects a large amount of American people is the television industry. I would like to assist you in reevaluating your content by informing you how your current content negatively impacts our world and stifles the potential for beauty and creativity in our world.  
As a premium cable television network, you hold a substantial amount of power in dictating the quality and quantity of content that is provided to the general American audience.  Congratulations on being the oldest and longest paid TV service that has ran continuously since 1972. With such a feat, you have an immense opportunity to promote powerful messages that either negatively or positively influence the overall well-being of your viewers. Some of your shows like, Game of Thrones or The Deuce, although popular, reinforce harmful messages that normalize rape myths and sexual violence. Such sexual exploitation can create mental scripts that can influence an individual’s behaviors when placed in triggering, real-life situations.
Pornography, sexual slavery, and prostitution as shown by such TV shows,  are real-life harms that cause deep wounds that have long lasting effects. Showing graphic portrayals of sexual exploitation makes such acts seem less serious with less negative consequences. Additionally, the average consumer may unintentionally treat such real life matters as a form of entertainment--something from which they receive pleasure rather than disgust. In turn, false beliefs about victims of sexual violence are internalized by the general public, potentially minimizing the need for legal action to protect victims and seek out perpetrators.
Whether or not one is passively permitting or actively creating the objectification of another human being, all are responsible for the consequences of such choices. Often those consequences harm seemingly powerless, vulnerable populations, but the effect of such exploitation is in reality, far more expansive. By allowing for gratuitous, drawn out sexual scenes to be shown on your network, you are placing not only the fictional characters, that happen to be real humans with actual souls, in sexually objectifying contexts, but you are positioning your viewer as a voyeur of sexual assault.
Please stop producing that shows that normalize commercial sexual exploitation, eroticisizing sexual nudity and paid for nudity. Our world needs those in power, such as yourselves, to make informed decisions about the consequences of your choices. You can choose to be known as leaders of the media industry that create positive, healthy behaviors that allow for positive human development,  or you can choose to be known as promoters of the dehumanization that accompanies sexual violence for the sake of more green paper.
Thanks,

Karina Okoren

Saturday, December 8, 2018

BYU Mens Choir

Well this week was so strange. Everything felt quite subdued and subtly sober. I walked into the tanner building around 4pm on Thursday and had headphones in. I was on my way to meet my friend to study but some external force influenced me to remove my headphones and be present. In the process, I was hit with a wall of power. The byu mens choir filled the staircase of the tanner buliding and were singing christmas hymns. I stopped in awe. It was like I couldnt move any further. The power of the music was so powerful. Wow. I felt grateful to be a part of our community and to be experiencing mortality and that I get to wake up each day, not knowing what new walls of power will hit me next, passing from one lane of media into the next.

Sunday, December 2, 2018

Work Posting

This Saturday I worked a full day at my job and it felt like an abnormally looooong day. I work at an assisted living center as an activities assistant and oof it was just one of those days where no one was pleased and the schedule kept getting out of hand. I was the only one working this day and I felt so so tired and I couldn't handle hear any more residents critique what I was doing and my patience was growing thin. We had a christmas party and my boss asked me to where an elf costume which just felt like the cherry on top. I was the only one dressed as an elf and the only one really there to clean up and set up all the rest of the activities. Lets just say I didn't feel like the happy, christmas elf you would want at a christmas party. Anyways I ended up posting a picture of myself in the elf costume on social media and I realized in that moment how social media became a coping mechanism for me. When I was alone working, feeling like the only sane person, absolutely exhausted, I felt validated, understood and comforted by posting and feeling like other people also have long hard days at work and it is okay to laugh about it at the end of the day.

Friday, November 23, 2018

Tolstoy & The Coen Brothers

I just finished reading Tolstoy's, Anna Karenina, and took my midterm on it for my Russian Literature class and I have to say I really came to love Tolstoy. His writing is so beautiful. I was amazed by how many situations he would create just using character's dialogue but the themes that were addressed within each interaction were so powerful and universal! I loved it.
Anyways, I watched the movie, The Ballad of Buster Scruggs and I felt like I was watching a piece of Tolstoy's literature in each short story. I know a lot of people that didn't enjoy it, but honestly I thought it was artistically brilliant intentionally created. I think because my mind has been conditioning the last few weeks to interpret themes and imagery through the lens of trying to interpret Tolstoy, I couldn't help but see a connection in the movie. I loved how the movie created such unique characters that caused me to question with whom to sympathize and where my moral expectations and when that happens. I loved it! As weird as it may sound, I would love to write an essay or something about the various themes of the short stories and how they were conveyed and connected to each other.

Sunday, November 18, 2018

Usher

Well well this week I remembered how much I love Usher. My roommates and I hosted a game night at our house this weekend and we played catch phrase and the name, Usher, came up. It then led to me showing my friend multiple music videos that reminded me of being a teenager or bonding with my older siblings. I loved re-watching these videos but I was also reminded by how much my experience and attachment to music videos has evolved as media has evolved. I remember being in middle school and even high school and really loving music videos and knowing all of them because I used only Youtube as my means to play music. I now only know a select few music videos of some favorite artists of mine but for the most part I dont even think of music videos. I am curious where the future of music videos will go and if it is going anywhere right now...

Sunday, November 11, 2018

Dance Ensemble

This weekend I got to perform in the Dance Ensemble concert on campus. I love how dancing is a unique form of media. It can be either fully experiential or simply visual. I love that for me as a dancer,  I get to use every thing I have: my mind, body, emotions, experiences, personality, etc. into every little movement or lack of movement in dancing. Performing will always be a highlight for me as I get to experience the unique power of connecting with strangers as I invite them into my expression of self through movement. It is a unique communicative method that for me is irreplaceable. I am grateful for dance and art because I get to create media that inspires both myself and hopefully others.

Monday, November 5, 2018

The West Wing

When it comes to TV shows, I am a bit of an 80 year old woman. I don't really have "my shows" nor do I get hooked very easily. I think just because currently I am very busy and don't have time, the idea of watching TV doesn't even cross my mind. Im grateful for this class though because I have to watch a TV show to code for our media project. While watching the West Wing this week, I have been so awakened to the gender discrepancy in women's roles versus men's in media. Although that is not a part of our group's study, I am consistently finding it to come up in what I code for and I think in the future, I want to be especially aware of it. I like coding while watching because I feel completely engaged and mentally, it is far more stimulating to be an active viewer and participant in media.

Call for Action: HBO

Dear executive officers,  Jeff Bewkes and Richard Plepler, As a student of Human Development, I am committed to creating a world with p...